eternal bonding

So I used to be married in game but it fell through after a while because i had to take a break from the game. Not knowing about the Anullment system, i threw the ring away so now i cant anull the maraige thus unable to marry again. Sent a message to the GMs about it and got an automated response to use the active help option but it has NOTHING regarding eternal bonding. I have made ABSOLUTELY SURE that it is nowhere on my character, retainers, or armoir. nor have i EVER had any extra retainers to put it on. Am i screwed? PLEASE HELP!

Character name Yuki Torchwik on Exodus server

never mind my new partner was wearing the wrong bracelet this whole time