Commends

I am close to flying golden tank and was wondering how i force people to give me commends. Do i hack theiur computers?

Commendations? It's super easy. Always be the last to leave a instance. Wait till everyone else leaves before you go... Make a macro saying polite stuff. (Nice to Meet you!) and such pleasantries. You are a Lala I see from your avatar icon. Use that to your advantage... Work that lala cuteness with a little victory dance macro when the final boss dies... Be cute, leave the instance last (most people arbitrarily give commendation to whomever is still there at the end for the weekly gil).... Pre-grats on your mount!

You appear to be a nin main, so 1 word - GOAD! Goading other melee or your tank will make you stand out from like 80% of other ninjas.

That actually holds true most of the time about waiting until everyone leaves. Some players i would imagine give commends if there is just a single player left to give to, i know i do this at times