Optimal Gear

I know this has been posted several times - but there doesn't seem to be anything conclusive really.

Now that 1.19 is here and we will shortly be moving to the next patch - I'm looking for any help you guys can give me on what gear choices to make. I'm looking for the "best" set and all other alternative options. I.e if Ifrit's Lance is not avaliable what else is there to use etc

Hopefully with any feedback, we could create a list of gear that people can work towards/make choices from.

Carraway's Lancer Guide

It's literally four topics down dude, you gotta read to find information.