Crash after hit play, windows 10, directx 9 and 11

I'm really at wits end here, I've been at this for something like 16 hours now and I'm all out of steam

Yesterday my laptop was working 100% perfectly, but after I shut it down and took it back out when I got home, everything went to hell in a handbasket

It was hanging constantly, freezing, crashing, explorer.exe kept locking up, ctrl alt delete would take 5+ minutes to work, the whole thing was nuts, especially when it was 100% perfect not even an hour before I shut it down

I decided with the myriad of problems, to just finally go ahead and put windows 10 on it, which fixed most of the problems, and the last couple I fixed myself

But finally I get to playing ffxiv, which was again working perfectly fine an hour before all of this

And now that it's on windows 10, it crashes the moment I press play, in both directx 9 and directx 11

Here's the event log:

Faulting application name: ffxiv.exe, version: 1.0.0.0, time stamp: 0x56438361
Faulting module name: ffxiv.exe, version: 1.0.0.0, time stamp: 0x56438361
Exception code: 0xc0000005
Fault offset: 0x00bde89b
Faulting process id: 0x1180
Faulting application start time: 0x01d11fbb06344a6f
Faulting application path: F:\SquareEnix\FINAL FANTASY XIV - A Realm Reborn\game\ffxiv.exe
Faulting module path: F:\SquareEnix\FINAL FANTASY XIV - A Realm Reborn\game\ffxiv.exe
Report Id: 232d022e-a5e5-41a1-ae1b-04a6afc46346
Faulting package full name:
Faulting package-relative application ID:

I've tried updating the drivers, I've tried updating directx, I've restarted the computer, I've wandered all over google and these forums for hours and hours, all night and all morning, and I just can't figure out what to do, I'm kind of panicking because of the 45 day timer to lose my house in game, so I'm sweating about getting this fixed asap

Can someone please help me?

EDIT: While I'm waiting for responses here, I'm going to try reinstalling the game completely, but I have a strong feeling this won't fix anything, however I'd like to at least mark it off my list of solutions

UPDATE: Not sure how, but the problem seems to have miraculously fixed itself after I woke up today. I got 3 different notifications saying that the display driver had been updated while I slept. Hopefully it keeps working.