Should I Try Another FC?

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Well the best thing about FFXIV is the FC tbh being in a good one is great among making good friends and enjoying the game ive been in my Fc since we started and tried soloing and tbh couldnt actually complete 24 hour without the FC X3

best advice? Define your core standards, what is it that you look for in a FC? Don't just tolerate things because flying solo is played out. Eventually you will find one that makes this game seem like a completely different, better, experience. Just takes time.
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Gather up some good friends and make one of your own.

I can assure you there are more people dealing w/ what you are going thru that feel the same way so you are not alone :)
I changed servers for that same reason and found a FC that has been my home for over a year now. Keep the hope alive :)