Transfer data from ps3 to ps4.

Hello, I have just got my ps4 today and I haven't touched anything, I would like to transfer my Data from Ps3 to ps4 so I can start playing today And I need some help and I have some questions.[LIST=1]
I have already Clicked on the ps3 version Transfer data from ps3 to ps4 and Im still waiting, Friends Have told me to Stop that go onto my ps4 and buy the game.Is that what I have to do?

Also some questions on my side, I already own the Collector For Realm reborn On my ps3. Would it matter if I buy the Standed On ps4? I really want to get this sorted asap If someone can help and give clear idea on what I need to do. That would be great.