Looking for Lower Pop Server and RP

Hi everyone! I'm currently on Balmung, a very high population server with loads of RP and it's great, but I've recently been very interested in buying a personal home and that raises two issues.

#1) There are no open homes on Balmung, and yes, I could pay someone to sell me theirs, but that leads me to my other issue.

#2) The cost of housing on Balmung is insane. I understand that I can make money and save it up until eventually I can buy a house, but saving up 10mil or more for a small house seems a little crazy.

So, I'm reaching out to see if there are any servers with a smaller population that still have a decent RP community with the hope that I can get the best of both worlds, i.e. own a home for a reasonable price and still get to rp.

Thanks for your responses, and I appreciate any help I can get on the matter. Also, please refrain from the typical responses that plague these forums about how "it's so easy to make gil" and "this game throws gil at you," ect. Thanks!

Brynhildr and Siren have smaller servers with RP and lower economy so that a small house is only about 2.5 million at highest cost (on Brynhildr anyway) - however most if not all of the plots on Brynhildr are taken, you MAY be able to convince some people to sell though and it won't be ridiculous to purchase

Thank you very much for your input, Terrini! It is much appreciated.