Looking for Ifrit XM help

No, I can't and refuse to pay 2.whatever million for an Ifrit XM pass, but I do need help.

It's seriously been about 2 months now and I can't seem to find a team to pass this with. DF or PF.

I'm not an idiot. I know the phases. I know where to stand. As a healer, There always seems to be a tank that can't swap or a DPS or 2 that gets plumed or even erupted and dies...it plummets from there. Or the other healer doesn't move out of the way of the group for nails.

As a DPS it seems to be the same thing. I'm so over it. Just looking for help from an EX FC out there. SOOOO if there's a generous FC out there, PLEASE find me in game or let me know how to find you. My FC is a nice one, but doesn't seem like any team wants to step foot into Ifrit again. lol