Looking for T5 kill help

for a good while, i was in a static that was making good progression, but due to having to move and the group slowly dying, i have yet to down turn 5. i have two other friends that are in the same situation, and whenever we see turn 5 groups, its always kill exp only. more and more, it seems like cactuar as a whole is becoming a server full of dicks with no patience. are there any people willing to help? i really want to move on to new coils to see and run the stuff for myself instead of wishing i could.