Can I fit in this Server w/ Unique Time Commitment Issues

Basically, I'm a casual who progresses too fast; I got the relic weapon about two weeks into the game, but I don't have the time to commit to something like statics because of real life (ex: likely not playing during the summer due to a serious job commitment, it's a paid job I expect tough hours).

So I'm stuck in a catch-22: I'm not mired in level 30-forever like a true casual, yet I do not have the time to do what other regular mmo players do in my situation, which is commit to statics and build relationships to farm endgame. I understand people might respond with "lol mmos are not for you," and frankly I might agree with that response.

That's why I'm reaching out to Coeurl. I hear it's very new-player friendly and it's very tightknit, so that it's less likely that people have segregated themselves into their own static fiefdoms. This is nothing against my current FC or server, it just happens that Gilga might be a more endgame dominant server.

In conclusion, is there any FC on this server who would be willing to take on someone like me? I'm farming tomes so I'll have my gear post-patch just about in line with what will be required for the new stuff, but I don't have the time to commit to dedicated statics. I understand that I might always be viewed as the "random" or "new" person because of my time commitment issues. Basically I do what it takes to get the gear necessary to compete and I usually make it happen, but I always have the problem of entering games where people have already mostly "static'd" up and there's nothing I can do to break in, which I totally understand.

Hey Auteur! My FC Homeward Bound might be perfect for you. My members and I are just like you for the most part. We are casual players who do endgame content when we can. We would be more than happy to welcome you to our ranks and call you friend!
We are still a new FC but we hope to stay small and develop a close group of friends waiting to play whenever you log in.
I definitely understand the time restrictions of having a job and can only play a few nights a week myself. So don't worry about being an outcast within our ranks.
If you are interested, I'd be happy to tell you more about us, and help you when it fits into your schedule.