Endless Maintenances

Good Morning,
First off: I know that a "new" started game got many problems and that maintenances are needed. BUT we pay monthly for it , and we expect the game not to be down every 2-4 days for several hours.
I only got the mornings to play since i own a rl and not only an ingame life.(I think many other players can relate to that)
I don't know what SE actually thinks..that we got all day to wait for them to finish and play then , because we got nothing better to do? Plus many ppl got lags or disconnects after maintenance.
If i want to log in and all i see (almost daily) is some kind of maintenance..It's not okay for a p2p game :/ . I've played many MMO's (f2p) which did not have these problems. SE really needs an improvement with these things, i don't know how but they need to come up with something.
How do the maintenances effect you guys?