Cannot wait for the "Party Board" feature

...Is that even what it's called?

I have come to DREAD trying a new battle or dungeon in this game.

I have 2 kid's so my days are pretty busy, I love this game, so I spend every spare moment playing it, sure, i'm wayyy behind these teenagers who are working on their second relic, but I don't care, i'm enjoying my playtime.

However....

I recently (2 weeks ago) hit 50 on my SCH, my first lvl 50, I was pleased. I did it using the story, not grinding fates, so that in itself was an achievement.

I can only do dungeon's at night, due the aforementioned kid's. I can do Chimera, Ifrit etc during the day because they only take 10 minutes. But dungeon's are a no go. So I spend my night's running dungeons. After farming WP for a couple of weeks, there is really nothing there for me anymore. So, I reach that point of my Relic Queue where I need the amdapoor glpyh so I decide, great, gives me a chance to learn and it's something new to farm for a couple of week's.

So we get in and I say straight off, "I'm new, bare with me", I get the reply from the tank "NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO", unnecessary but I say nothing.

So we down the first boss first time, which i'm happy with, on to the second boss, down 4th time, again this feels like progress. Onto the final boss, 3 fail's (admittedly my fault) tank goes, "too much fail in here, i'm done" and leave's. I'm left feeling like the entire group has wasted their time due to me. This is why I am beginning to dread running new dungeons :(

PS We replaced the tank and finished the boss within 2 more attempts. But srsly, did everyone just miraculously finish AK first time? Does no one remember what it was like to be new....

Sorry for double post, damn character limit.

Problem is like 9/10 ppl have done it 50 times, its actually rare to meet a new ak'er
Solution: 1-2 bad runs then you become one of the masses

If u need more practise or gear from ak, whisper me ingame and i tank a couple whit u, i never have bad time when using DF, and im tierd of SR :p