Popup Auto Focus - My biggest gripe

Don't know if this is the right place for this feedback to get seen but I play on a controller and generally tend to have my most common abilities activate when I hold the Right Trigger and press A, and I figure thats probably a common setup since A is the easiest button to press.

My problem (and I assume a lot of people have this problem) is that when Duty Finder picks up a party it makes it so the accept button has "focus" and the next time I press A it will accept the Duty Finder party. If you are queueing up for multiple dungeons or have selected to join parties in progress, you want to be able to see which dungeon it is and where exactly the party is at, or if you are about to finish a fate you might want to wait 20 seconds to get your reward, but more often than not since you are spamming the A button in combat the Duty Finder will pop right as you hit A and it will be instantly accepted. This also happens when someone in your party uses teleport. I can't count how many times I accept a teleport while in a fate party, run to the fate, start attacking, and then someone else in the party teleports cause they missed the first one and I end up getting teleported back out of the fate because I was pressing A.

It would be so nice if Duty Finder and Party Teleports would start off grayed out and you have to actually select the window so you cannot accidently accept it.

(and while you're at it wouldn't it be nice to be given a 10 second warning before being told that you cant teleport - i.e. let people know that there is a teleport and then give then some time to get off chocobos before it goes off).


*Just my selfish thoughts on a great way to improve my own personal experiences*

Or when you are synthing and typing to someone at the same time. The synth completes and auto-focuses you out of the chat window. Three seconds later I have every window open in a clutter on my screen as I kept typing away hitting the shortcut keys for map, timers, gathering log, hunting log, etc. I do not know how many times I've done this - you'd think I would learn! :3

These are the types of little polish things I imagine they will fix as time goes on.