Still cannot quickly see if my debuffs are on enemies.

Hopefully this will be addressed soon and in a patch. :) I have a feeling it will be in the 2.1 patch, though.

I would just like an option to be able to turn all other players debuffs off completely I have no need to see any but my own.

I'm glad that this is being talked about. The green tint on the numbers just isn't enough.

Some suggestions:

Have the player's debuff icons be slightly larger than other icons

Always keep the players debuff icons at the front

I'd rather not have to disable other player's debuff icons, as I look to see what other debuff on a target

Under character configuration, UI settings. There is a tab for party list with essentially two options for it. This needs to have a ton of options put in for customization. As a healer I would like to be able to just hide all the buffs in the party window and only show debuffs on party members.

I also totally agree that your own buffs/debuffs on a selected target should be separated (tiny green numbers is not enough).