Originally Posted by
AnimaAnimus
Femininity in men is not lgbt. Grace in men is not lgbt. Expecting someone who is lgbt to have this attributes is, however, homophobic in nature. Its like saying we got mcn cause ppl wanted representation of PoC.
Gayness has nothing to do with these sort of things. The only thing you need to express being lgbt is having an attraction to the same sex - both sexes - and transitioning to the opposite sex respectively. No where in lgbt does it state that anyone has to adhere to any sort of stereotype, negative or otherwise.
The community has been asking for lgbt relationships or expression, but the last thing they need is for SE to perpetuate stereotypes because of some short sighted and ignorant view on what is lgbt. I have so many gay friends who are so tired of the assumptions they get when they tell ppl they are gay. "Oh did you watch Drag Race last night" "take me shopping" "you are my new gbff" "you play football? I thought you were gay?" believe me, there are a whole lot of gay ppl who are tired of this sort of thing. All they want is ppl to just stop with the stereotyping.