Your post about the lolita clothes means jack squat. I'm a lolita myself and as such have attended multiple meetups and teaparties where I interacted with others wearing that fantastically beautiful fashion. I have met several brolitas, as we call them, over the years, one of which was a father who came with his daughter (both in Baby the Stars Shine Bright head to toe). Let me tell you he was tall and had legs for miles that looked better than half the girls attending and he wore the dress as well as anyone there. The guys who wear lolita don't bug anyone for a uniquely made dress, they just put on what is available for everyone and look good. I applaud anyone who wears the fashion in public settings, and especially males who have the sheer guts to wear whatever they like. Lolita is for anyone who wants to feel beautiful regardless of what reproductive organ is between their legs.
Also, one of the most prestigious brands out there was created and worn by a male; heck he played a big part in making lolita popular! I speak of course of Mana-sama and his brand Moi-Meme-Moitie.
Some gorgeous brolitas to prove my point:
