Lalafell's Ruined (For Me) By a Couple People

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Originally Posted by RoyalBeef

lolwut. Oh damn it's the patriarchy again, now even oppressing virtual fantasy avatars! x)



Probably the only sane suggestion I read in 24 pages of this ^^

But then, in another thread someone suggested that blacklisting people is toxic and enforcing systemic pressure or some other word salad stuff onto them... damn, we've come full circle now where you should blacklist toxic people, but then become toxic yourself for blacklisting them :D

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LOL anyone, and I mean anyone, who tries to shame me into putting up with their trolling or bullying can rot on my blacklist.

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Originally Posted by Elim

There use to be a guy here (on this forum) on a crusade, trying to get SE to delete lalafells and telling everyone who played the race that they were perverts. Some creepy people agreed with him, and even my ex-boyfriend made comments about it.

Meanwhile, I'm a 25 year old woman without any mental illnesses that just enjoys dressing up a chibi avatar (a potato with a head) in cute looking outfits. Back in the day I changed to miqo'te because of these men's disturbing claims; I didn't want to deal with being bullied by them anymore, and as someone who use to be a heavy forum-goer I experienced it almost on the daily. But just recently I returned to the game and missed the cuteness of a potato avatar and changed back to lalafell.

The issue is, ever since then I have had anxiety because of my experience of being bullied when playing the race. It's basically ruined the race for me... I've considered changing back, but I wanted to see if others have had similar experiences or if these creeps have cleared out from the forum.

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If any non-lala players ever wonder why lalafell communities (via linkshells, social media groups, etc.) are a thing, then look no further than this post. No pervs (usually), no creeps, no bullies, just players trying to enjoy the game playing what they want to play for no other reason than to have fun.

As you can see from this thread Lilith, all of us lalas are here for you. Also, do try to avoid these forums; there are some really bad people here.