when i whm guess the only real pet peeve i have is when DD that's getting hit decides to just kinda stay there taking hits or when a DD goes into red hp and doesn't even allow a second or two for a heal to be que'd. It is my job as a whm to heal you from an unavoidable big hit but then when you decide to stay there and take more big hits and you die because cures cant keep you alive and cura has a cd then at least have the decency to recognize your mistake. Admittedly as someone that used to heal in WoW at least the overall "healers fault" ideology in FF 14 is considerably less present, but when you nag a healer it makes them wanna heal you even less. :P
