Based on posting history, I don't believe OP to be a troll and the request appears to be genuine.
However, their replies so far bring to light why they seem to encounter so much hostilities in their groups: they are the one initiating them. I had initially suspected as much but wanted to give them benefit of the doubt.
There have been plenty of polite and level-headed responses to your inquery. You can accept them and try to reconsider your position or offer equally reasonable counterpoints but going to war with everyone that disagrees with you isn't going to accomplish anything.
