The difference between runs with/with no essences is 30 - 35min.
DR is rather economical now since it drops both artifacts and raw emotions. And not everyone has groups ready to tackle the 100+ floors of PotD (since you need a premade for that and it's also dull).
It's not too much to expect everyone to carry their weight. Just bring SOMETHING to speed runs up. In randoms it can mean the difference between a 30 min run and an hour. People shouldn't be resistant to this.
Not only am I not farming essences, I've been doing a lot of these at work on my laptop using their crappy wifi, so I'm generally distracted and hitchy through a lot of the run. Plenty of times I've had to actually step away for a few minutes mid fight, and I'm usually dead when I get back, lol.
Doesn't it make you all so mad? Don't you wish there was something you could do about it? ;)
I never do complain, but this isn't really an apt comparison. Expecting people to do mechanics and play their class in the content they queued for isn't the same as expecting them to farm, spend gil and do a bunch of external prep work for a normal DR raid.
May as well get mad that the people doing normal SHB raids aren't pentamelded and using high level foods/pots because of what a significant time difference that would make.
I'm level 15 now, and after cashing in the measly fragments you get from CEs/FATES I had exactly 4 decent, usable essences for my job and a bunch of crap. The Relic steps I've been doing outside of Bozja, so I'd only run CLL and DR once prior. Running Bozja proper gets you virtually nothing unless you get lucky.
I plan to use all of the essences I have, but won't be farming/buying more.