Coming from WoW where literal wars broke out over nodes on PvP server I always made a beeline for nodes as if total annihilation was around the corner and the node my only chance at survival.
Took me quite a while to notice that nodes miraculously did not despawn if someone got there first. And imagine my confusion when I saw someone standing 2m away from me, seemingly hacking into thin air.
I've accidentally locked myself into cleric while the tank got his teeth rearranged so many times, it's really emberassing. That's what you get for spamming a button you definitely should NOT spam.
With the way healer dps worked back then people were generally really understanding of healers not daring to dps or the occasional fuck ups caused by turning cleric on at the wrong moment. There was an undeniably higher risk to it then compared to now so I doubt the others were really bothered by you not daring to dps.
