Yup its called my retainer .. oh wait am I making this worse :P
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I think OP is being a sore loser :( I'd be all upset too if I lost the roll, but honestly it was a fair fight and you lost. You both did the fight, you both rolled, he won and that's why you are upset. The community is what you make it to be. I think XIV community is great and I ignore those that aren't because they are not worth remembering.
With the new echo buff on primals especially up to 50% on hard modes the need for ifrit/garuda weapon to beat titan is no longer there so I would just carry on and not bother whining about not winning the lot on that weapon because you can probably just duty finder garuda and titan and have a bunch of high levels get roulette'd in and carry you through. Even if they aren't massively high level a 50% echo buff after a few wipes will make up for everything. Then after titan you have the ilv80 relic and ifrits weapon only exists as vanity making your roll no better than the other drgs in the end.
Should of asked if you could have it first.
Some players like to collect stuff.
I am a bit torn on this one. I am a "main class" bard, ilvl91 (myth gear mostly). In a FC group we had 3 pieces drop of allagan for bards and I passed on them for the OFF CLASS of the other bard present was ilvl 70 in those slots. The key here is that it was a FREE COMPANY group. I passed to better us as a whole, because his off class bard benefits us.
People will pass for others, if you at the beginning state need, even in the duty finder. Yes, some won't because they see no reason to put a complete strangers wants/needs before their own. They will pass for others, if you are part of a party finder group and state need. To ASSUME he would not roll, when you didn't even ASK..in the duty finder.... and then complain that he didn't is just plain blow my mind crazy-talk. That's looking for a reason to be upset.
I suggest you communicate better with the groups you are in, or start a party finder or free company group who knows they are there to pass on anything you want/need. Good luck with getting your upgrades =D
Just a bit?
I am a firm believer that if "stat wise" a person actually needs it, I feel those people should have the right to have it first and foremost. Everything else is really on the backburner.