Marriage Partner Hookup Megathread!

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Originally Posted by Mugiawara

Post limit... GET BIGGER.

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I wish I can say what I want to say without offending anyone, but until I do I'm just going to say there are Guys who DON'T care what's between people's legs. I'm one of them. Sadly that means noone really plays with you. Girls don't believe you, and guys well... they want those kitties. So It happens. Gaming is still full of guys looking for the girl that plays games. Lucky for me I did find a few peeps I can play with so yay. But that took a LONG time and I'm just looking for FRIENDS.

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Originally Posted by SagaSoluna

It is sad to see how many pages of male-player bashing you can find in the last few weeks´s worth of thread.
Do take into consideration that us males also have our own set of disfavorable meetings and encounters, yet we do not come here to rage about them.
It does not happen to only you ladies...

Oh well...

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Won't lie, was getting pretty annoyed with it too. I mean even when my own app was up, I put 'guys only' despite not seeking IRL. But no one would accuse me of being a creep, because I'm a lady. Tired of people playing victim Olympics.

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Originally Posted by SagaSoluna

It is sad to see how many pages of male-player bashing you can find in the last few weeks´s worth of thread.
Do take into consideration that us males also have our own set of disfavorable meetings and encounters, yet we do not come here to rage about them.
It does not happen to only you ladies...

Oh well...

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What is sad is that we can't even discuss an extremely common problem for women in MMOs without guys chirping in saying people are "male-bashing" and "it happens to guys too!" No one is saying it doesn't, the issue at hand is just how prevalent it is among female players and the harassment they get simply for stating their gender. It's childish to see this as a personal attack and try to twist it around back on yourself.

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Originally Posted by Lokier

You like marmite?! You monster! Hehe...

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Heathen!

In all seriousness, you seem really cool (I'm into writing, photography, anime etc. too), it's a shame you're on Odin. ;-;

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Originally Posted by Lunaxia

What is sad is that we can't even discuss an extremely common problem for women in MMOs without guys chirping in saying people are "male-bashing" and "it happens to guys too!"

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To begin with, this statement is kind of hilarious considering that the very first comment above yours is from a lady complaining about the very same thing.

Secondly, i have not claimed that this was a "personal attack" or tried to make this issue "about males", i simply stated that because it happens to both genders, maybe there is no need to have this discussion every dozen or so pages.

The reason for my statement being that:

1) This is not the place to have these kind of discussions to begin with, and yet we already had it four times in the last month or so.
2) It keeps pushing everyone´s adds and applications back and further away from new and interested eyes.

These two points were agreed upon by pretty much everyone the last few times this discussion was taking place, yet you guys started it once again.
So no, i was not "making it about myself" and this goes beyond "guys chirping into your important women mmo troubles"

But of course, you could not help yourself but to go into a "Guys are mansplaining on muh FemIssues™" rant.

Quoting the lady above you :

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Originally Posted by Dreamsoap

Tired of people playing victim Olympics.

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Btw Sage you just rekindled it when it was over.

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Originally Posted by Lee-Akira

Server: Behemoth
Willing to transfer? Nope.
Personal Interests: Role-play, Videogames, Anime, Manga, etc.
Play schedule: Every day after 2pm (CT) to 10pm (CT)
What kind of gamer are you: Dedicated when interest is piqued, relaxed when enjoying the story.
Character Gender: Female (Male in real life) (Might change my character to my male one)
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? Would prefer a lady. (:
Character Race: Hyur
Preferred Race: All the races are belong to me. ( Any race is fine, no playing favorite, all races are cute in their own way.)
Main class?: Dark Knight
Dislikes: Liars.
Goals for the game: To collect minions, mounts, unique weapons/Armor, enjoy the story, level up all the classes/jobs, and have fun doing it. Perhaps also get back into raiding!
Goals for the marriage union: To enjoy the game with someone else. Role-play, getting some heals to my tanking! (:

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Re-post.~ (:

Yeah, this thread has completely derailed. Thanks, folks. Mods should close this.

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Originally Posted by SagaSoluna

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if you so badly want their conversation to go away why add more fuel to the flames? As a male myself and as I saw your post before you edited are you sure you arent the one "projecting" here? All I saw in their previous post was a few girls warning others to keep an eye out for the occasional creeps out there. I didn't see anyone post saying "this only happens to females. Feminism!" It's a simple hard fact that guys lose their shit whenever they find out a real girl exists behind a character. Not all guys but some.

Really there's no need to get so upset about it if it doesn't really apply to you, as least that's how I see it. Besides everything was getting back on topic.... let a few people have conversations.it's not the end of the world ;)

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Originally Posted by WubstahWulf

Repost.

Wubster Wulf

Server:Goblin

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I'm not sure if you remember me anymore, but we played together on the Zodiark server for maybe a year or so before you transfered to another server. (you used to call me a granny because of the skylla head gear, I'm not sure if that rings a bell (probs not xD)) If you don't remember then that's totally fine, but I just wanted to ask if you're enjoying the Goblin server, I remember you saying that you were lonely and wanted to see if other servers have what you were looking for. I feel bad for not been able to give a proper goodbye :/ also I feel like an idiot for not asking you to stay ^^" Oh, but anyways, I just wanted to say hi. And thanks for being a good buddy~!

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Originally Posted by Losstarot

Hey guys i just wanted to say that i chatted with her a couple of times(not too much tho but it gave me a good vibe) and she seems lovely, she is a good cate o/.

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Aw, thank you hun. :) I try not to tear the heads off of too many people. :P

On a side note, I figured out how to roll on NA servers, so I can come bother you Americans sometimes, lol.