Marriage Partner Hookup Megathread!

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Originally Posted by Amnesiac

I try not to but I usually do lest they have transitioned already/gotten HRT. This is mainly because it's hard to tell over voip and until they inform me they're trans I may refer to them as male. I do respect them though so when I know they're transitioning I refer to them by their preferred pronoun. I have trans friends on the game and have no issues with them! They're awesome. I am not pansexual though, if you are asking about that.

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I wasn't assuming you were pan don't worry about that, all is good! we gucci as some would say!

took me a bit but I found this

anime ep 1, Netoge no Yome wa Onnanoko ja Nai to Omotta

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W9zRV72b9QM

I hope that answers all the questions about finding your special person....

when your young, innocent you don't know any better, you think the world is full of sunshine, and rainbows... and happy feelings... then bad things happen... then more bad things happen... then you end up like Mr. Plinkett down the street.. a sad angry old man... that hates everyone...

well instead of this thread I will simply go and get on my new car, head to vegas, and Drink and be marry with a bunch of nerdy chicks in real life... because FAnFEST...

Drops Mic

at this point I just want friendship to maybe lead to more...but mostly friendship

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Originally Posted by cammi

So yeah... this just happened. I never had to prove I was a guy ever. You think with the popular as hell joke " There's no women online" that a guy is easy to spot. NOPE! Got a tell from someone who flat out refused to believe I was a guy. Never before had something like that has happened to me. I figured most guys would pick the female avatars as why not. They look GOOD.Oh well, you can't win em. You're either a jerk/perv OR you must be a girl cause guy don't make female toons. So confused lol.

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Lmao. Even as a girl my automatic assumption for female toons is that they're dudes unless proven otherwise. Played way too many MMOs in my years to know this.

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Originally Posted by Amnesiac

Not looking anymore haha. Too many creeps messaging me now, that and 95% of the "girls" in this community are actually guys, so I had little luck to begin with. I really just wanted a BFF to slay with and talk about girl stuff. Should've expected the outcome.

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I gotta agree with LunarLunatic, those people are a minority and they're easy to figure out right from the start. I already met some great friendly people here, my honest advice is just keep going. It always helps if you give people some clues about your personality too.
It helps cement strong common ground while alienating those you'd never get along with before you even talk. Though I can understand how hard it may be to find a female friend.

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Originally Posted by Dreamsoap

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In regard to make female friends, it is not hard. I met a few female players. The problem is that guys or girls have more expectations from then and/or want not commitment and/or want just to goof around (yes girls as well as guys think the same from "female players"). Now if the female players are busy as well as you, how about you come out of your busy schedule and talk. If people don't talk and just expect to be talked and be the one always receiving attention it won't work or if you are too clingy in right after talking to that person, it is a huge problem.

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Originally Posted by Amnesiac

Not looking anymore haha. Too many creeps messaging me now, that and 95% of the "girls" in this community are actually guys, so I had little luck to begin with. I really just wanted a BFF to slay with and talk about girl stuff. Should've expected the outcome.

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Dont let those creeps stop you.. Believe it or not there are women everywhere on this game. My FC is mostly female for example and it wasn't intentional. From my experience the people creeping on you will more likely be a male because I've never seen a female creep.. I know they must be out there but I just don't see it.

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Originally Posted by Amnesiac

Not looking anymore haha. Too many creeps messaging me now, that and 95% of the "girls" in this community are actually guys, so I had little luck to begin with. I really just wanted a BFF to slay with and talk about girl stuff. Should've expected the outcome.

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I'd chat to you about girly stuff if you want, can't marry you though, you're on the NA data server whilst I'm stuck on the EU one.
I've Skype if you've got that; "Ulalune" should make me pop up...

I also have Discord, #Xentelash ... I think that's how you find me? lol

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Originally Posted by Dreamsoap

Lmao. Even as a girl my automatic assumption for female toons is that they're dudes unless proven otherwise. Played way too many MMOs in my years to know this.

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SEE you understand! It's the next day and I'm STILL confused T.T Like who does this? oh well. At least I made someone laugh today so it must be a good day :D

On the topic of women pretending to be men, I remember being 12/13 and playing WoW all the way back in Vanilla, I was in a guild with a person who pretended to be a woman but was in fact a man to gain an advantage / gifts from otherwise ignorant players. Wasn't until someone who he had admitted his real gender to told me that I even knew, lol.