How much would be hour difference between MT and EST?
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is not an easy thing to get Archaell...some are materialist want to possess everything including someone then throw them away like tissues...others sincerely try but when they realize how demanding it can be find all sorts of reasons to stop...or do all they can for the other part to stop...many do it for the bond..even more just to have someone to play with....and in between you have those couples that made it....and last forever or for a long time....as long as you find what makes you happy is fine..wish people were considering that beyond pixels there are actually real people ..but yeah many do for the right reason...
I think the items are important, but also meaningless if you don't have a bond partner that you actually like to play with. Who would you carry around in that fancy chocobo and what'd the teleport feature be for? Personally, I'm a bit greedy and would like to do the bond for both the items and have a really good friend to enjoy the game with.
So far, I have seen a couple of successful ones, which are the marriage between friends. It is a mutual benefit for both people (items and a real friendship), and between people who are actually searching for a relationship (those rarely happen). I have seen a few people that rp ans/or erp with their eb partners here, but they end up divorcing because of several reasons.
That's exactly how I got eternal bonded and then eternally divorced. Too much flirting and way too many eRP sessions that it eventually escalated into the eternal bond. Then when it seemed like the things could have calmed down the girl decided to commence the divorce protocols because she found the amount of my attention unsatisfactory... it still lasted longer than the chocobo marriages so at least something ^^
The marriages between friends and RL partners are kinda exception because the bond is already there. When two random players decide to get eternal bonded - and I don't mean it like "hey, I just met you, but here let's bond", the bond has to have more benefits than drawbacks to have any chance of longer lasting relationship between the players.