Despite I'd say 75-80% of my experiences having been mostly positive, I always keep my expectations low. If someone's new, I don't care. No one does, but speak up. No one will be able to help if they don't say something, otherwise the party's going to assume they're on an alt or something like that. My only expectations of anyone is to at least know the basics of their class, and be open to advice if it's given, and of course...speak up if someone's new. Most people in this game really do want to help. In my 4 years, I'd say the majority of the community is at least decent. There are jerks, yes, but they're everywhere on the internet or off. But people shouldn't let that deter them from asking for help, or be willing to read a summary someone took the time to type out for them. Those are my only expectations, beyond that I have none.
