Remember that FFXIV is a "theme park" MMO. Some people don't like roller coasters - does that mean they shouldn't go to Six Flags? Of course not, there are plenty of other rides and things to do. My parents took me to Carowinds one year and my mother spent all day watching Star Trek On Ice while I did the coasters and my dad played pinball in the arcade. Everybody was happy.
We tried for months to get a coil static off the ground in our free company. There was never a night when at least eight of us could make it. Some people finally pressed ahead and cleared T5 without us, but only one guy (our FC leader) joined an external static and made it to T13.
