Yes, CT is a cesspool of immaturity.
However, as others have stated, first try to have a thick skin and if it gets really bad take a snapshot and report the offenders.
If nobody does anything about people behaving in such a way then they will continue behaving as such. If we want SE to put a stop to it, we need to let them know about it.
Also, I posted this in another thread but I felt it was appropriate here as well.
Some things that people can do to help mitigate the CT hate.
- If you are new, SAY SO, it will show even if you try to hide it. Sure some people will be douches about it but many others will be helpful and understanding.
- Don't try to go straight into CT after hitting 50 and being in just AF gear without a relic or primal weapon. Run some high lvl dungeons and primal hm's, get some darklight gear and at least the ifrit weapon. This is especially true if you are a tank. People will make snap judgements based on your equipped gear and its good to get some practice in with harder content first.
- Rein it in. You may be used to be going all gung-ho in previous dungeons but CT requires some coordination with the group as a whole, so communicate (politely) and if you are unsure about anything, just ask.
- Leave your ego in Mor Dhona. If your ego flares up it will cause others to react in kind leading to a giant ego pissing match ragefest which will just end with people being kicked or leaving and ultimately a failed run. Really this applies to everything, not just CT.