This makes me wonder if the op has seen games like WoW, where as a male character you are locked into being crazily over-buff.
FFXIV actually has a wide variety of builds for a game, and the only one I would consider muscular like a warrior or over-buff is roe. The rest are actually more on the lean or thin side imo. And you can make them look thin or more muscular with different clothes.
(And this is coming from someone who likes slender and thin males and biggest pet peeve is overly buff guys)
The fact that male Au Ra have hour glass figures is a lot of diversity especially for male body types in games. As another poster mentioned SWTOR might be the only game with more variety.
