I used to play on Balmung. Even a lot of the 'normal' role-players are obsessed with romance and ERP. It isn't always obvious but after spending a good few years on the server I ended up being driven away because it just became too much. The stereotypes surrounding Balmung exist for a reason. Are there exceptions? Sure - but I lost count of the amount of times I was shunned or ignored even by supposedly 'good' role-players because I declined romantic or erotic role-play.
