Imo it depends on the community and the server. For example, to me Gilgamesh is just not enjoyable despite relative success (I hit 60 last week and now already cleared soph ex multiple times and got the wep). The problem is that gilga is apparently the designated "hardcore" server, which puts people into a pit of elitists and undesirables that just tense up and stress everyone out in groups.
As some have said in this thread, clearing for the sake of clearing in a tense environment can be draining (the game becomes like working a high paying job, you have material success but you absolutely hate the surrounding environment).
I guess if you are a hardcore player yourself you don't mind dealing with your kin but as a fresh player here this just is not a fun environment. I gladly will trade maybe not being to pug content ASAP for a better server environment, and maybe a server transfer will make endgame more fun.
