I came across dozens of those kind of people in swtor and it doesn't have cross server either. Cross server has NOTHING to do with it. It's just that when it gets implemented people get it in their head that the community was magically better when it wasn't there and its 100% false. Or maybe I was just imagining the spamming in chat of people typing in caps SPAAAACEEEEBARRRR THE CUTSCENE in swtor? And that game has an EXTREMELY small community. Nothing changes, its all in your head. This whole "they wont get invites" is a load of crap. Someone will always invite them.
Heck, I was in one of the largest progression guilds at one point in swtor and we had an officer completely empty our bank over one silly argument. The entire server knew about him. He still managed to find another guild and was still clearing content. So forgive me if I don't buy into the crap about a "better community without cross server." Every example thrown out I can throw right back as I've seen it all in single server queue systems and it hasn't stopped anyone. I quite like logging into FFXIV and at the most waiting 15-20 minutes (usually it pops within 10 minutes or less) for a queue pop and getting into the dungeon and 99% of the time having zero issues compared to what I had to deal with in swtor waiting up to 3 hours at times just to get ONE queue pop for a flashpoint (dungeon). And don't even think about trying to queue for an operation (raid) as you will be lucky if that even pops at all. You could stay logged in for 3 weeks and it would never pop. And when it does everyone immediately leaves after a wipe.
I'll stick to supporting cross server queues.
