I guess I could have rephrased from treated like shit, maybe get blamed for everything would be better. I don't have problems with anything after a couple wipes, and I mean single wipes not full raid wipes. The most would be about tank losing aggro when on the flip side, someone else over did their aggro. Not meaning aoe, meaning healer with regen grabbing instant aggro, melee tanking their own mob, players not switching when it goes yellow, etc. and not bringing it to me. It's a four player game, they can control what they're doing. I've seen monsters go yellow with good aggro and player is sitting their actively trying to take it