I would agree to an option to only load the cutscenes your first time through a dungeon.
As a player on a Slower PC, I am often about 10 seconds behind those who are on gaming rigs per cutscene.
Of course, as a caveat to this, I would agree to making cutscenes mandatory for the first run of the dungeon... Either the Vets can wait, or they can continue on with it while you watch the story.
