Not only it is loaded, it is just objectively wrong. Biologically speaking, there isn't a single person, animal, plant, entity on this planet and beyond that is a man or a woman -- These are genders, and by themselves, they aren't biological as they have nothing to do with biology. Sex and gender are two separate things, and neither of these are aboslute. So, actually, it is a you problem.
I'll be crystal clear about this: the VA, her gender and everything else about them personally, has nothing to do with the subject at hand. For the love of all that is good, please, stay on topic.
