The majority of us who say people who don't use Cleric's Stance are lazy aren't referring to hardcore content while you're still learning and/or undergeared. If you don't feel it's SAFE to DPS, then don't. However, the issue with just getting rid of Cleric's Stance entirely and not allowing healers to DPS AT ALL, is that for the vast majority of content in the game it's not difficult to get to a gear level where you can toss a few regens (or let Eos handle it for SCHs) and literally just /sit for the rest of the fight.
Every time I see a player say "A healer's job is to heal, so if the party survives they did their job" I cringe. Healer is literally the only job in the game where a significant portion of the playerbase feels you're doing fine if you jerked off for most of the fight rather than actually played the game.
