When/Why were you vote kicked?

... Sunken Temple of qarn, I'm trynig to level up my warrior (almost at 36) and I greet the others with a "First time tanking here, if you have any suggestion, please keep in mind is always welcome". Silence. Bard rushes forward without protect, me, whm and mch follow him in a rush, I manage to grab aggro back and we clear the first pull of trash mobs. Before I can recover TP the bard is already rushing away, I follow, we painfully and slowly clear the second trash (bless provoke and flash)move on the next one and it's a big run in general with me running after bard. Before the first boss bard decides to run off before we complete clearing the current pull and he dies.

Screen goes black and I'm back in the Goblet. Wonderful.:o
(Edited because when I'm angry I can't engrish, apparently)

I've only been kicked twice first time was in WOD when it was still new and I was WHM other healer SCH and our tank was MT on the first boss. The amazing SCH didn't heal at all or DPS and got himself killed by doom, I instantly SC raised on him and he denied it wasting all the mp it took for it. So I'm solo healing as half my team doesn't know the fight and are building the same color stacks and taking tons of dmg and the tank is getting beat up as well since only one OT grabbed the add so our tank pulled the 2nd one off my face. It's basically become zero down time healing and I was almost out of mp when the SCH starts talking in alliance chat shouting that we are solo healing and starts to imply that he's the one doing it -_- so we kill it and after everyone passes on the first drop I get kicked. Literally killed my day and I just logged off and said fuck it.

I have only been kicked before due to D/Cs, I once joined WoD as a conj way back when I was bored, but they just said I was "classy" and didn't mind it because I was still healing well :I

@frost

Ouch... i feel your pain there. Know that feeling all to well when something like that happens(Even if it happens so rarely) It just drains all your reason to play

I sorta self-kicked a few days ago.

Lvl roulette as DRK. 2x brd and whm in Aurum Vale, a dungeon I enjoy. Long story short, the whm healed nearly the entire instance in CS despite me mentioning (politley) that healing in CS is a bad thing. After a near wipe and getting through the second boss purely on CS heals, as well as one of the brds making a number of asinine comments, I take Grit off before the final pull and engage. Predictably, we wiped.

The brd provided yet more commentary and I said something to the effect of "you said you had tanked that near wipe pull better than I had, so...tank!" And then proceeded to tell them that if they won't do their jobs, I won't do mine, because this is a team effort, and while a good whm knows when to dps, and will use CS to do it, a bad whm heals full time in CS, even when politely told that this gimp heals.

So I left the instance, took the 30 minute penalty, then went and got ice cream with my nephew.

Got vote kicked from the Wholeeater (extreme) because i was having an argument with MT who said i was tunnel vision as a dragoon for not attacking Wavetooth sahagin and blame all dps about it..

What happened was OT (paladin) failed to stunlock it before the dreamstorm initiated and left the aoe beneath the sahagin, thus leaving me a melee dragoon not being able to attack the sahagin.. I even used spineshatter dive into the dreadstorm to save the party from stunning dreadwash, and this MT kept claiming i wasn't even attacking at all..

I was leveling up Bard right after 3.0 launch. I was in a mix of greens and HQ whites. So were 99% of people in the game at that point.
The Vault, 2nd boss, zero heals. I'm using pots and second wind, but I die. No rez. Boss dies. Release and run back.
We clear the trash all the way up to the last boss.
Tank: You don't have enough DPS to get us through the orb phase.
Healer: Bard dps is sh*t, I'm not healing you.
Me: Well, I do zero damage when I'm dead, so maybe try doing your job.
Screen goes black.
"You have been dismissed from the party."

I was leveling my Bard in the Aery and i was looking for some new stuff because mine was a bit outdated.
We were far before the 1st boss.
I took advantage of my range and DoTs in order to open the chests without losing too much dps since the healer didn't want to open them even if i asked him to since he was doing nothing except using cure every 15s (i mean, you can put regen + asylum and you can derp around).The tank started to be really impolite because apparently i was losing their time by opening them and it was a HUGE loss of dps (the healer wasn't dpsing but hey, I was the one making them lose dps). I just had the time to see that the tank and the healer were a couple that my screen went black. "You have been dismissed from the party".

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Originally Posted by Cold_Raven

... Being selfish in a game like this is okay...

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Great mentality there....

I am not saying it is reasonable to expect people to inspect someone before rolling, that would just be annoying and delay the dungeon anyways. If you absolutely want something then speak up, otherwise don't expect someone to pass on it just because. But it kind of sucks to snag gear for your retainer when it will actually help others. Honestly, I think most people saying otherwise are just trying to validate their excuses for being selfish.

Personally, I need for upgrades, I greed otherwise. You end up running these places a million times, plenty of opportunity for glamour/seals, whereas the person trying to get an actual upgrade while leveling/gearing through the dungeon will legitimately benefit from the gear.

loving the fact everyone says first and only time. :D

I've been kicked a bunch of times but then I'm a healer main. First time was Sastasha HM, I struggled so bad on first boss i was embarrassed and asked them to kick me till i figured it out. The last time i got kicked I was tanking The Aery and the 2 dps kicked my Fiance who was healing (57 and still learning) and couldn't keep them alive when they got trapped in a prison and couldn't dps it down my fiance was trying to catch up on healing because they couldn't move out of aoe's so struggled to dps. So they kicked her and i lost my rag. Half-way through a mad, spittle enducing rant about their parentage they kicked me (Can't understand why?) Now my fiance refuses to heal anything outside of an FC party.