Originally Posted by
Wynn
Atomos break!
Ok, let's clarify something up front. I realize people develop real friendships in online games. It happens every day.
That said, there is a huge difference between a real friend and a in-game "friend."
One is not going to abandon you no matter what because that's what friends do. The other will drop you on a dime if it benefits them because they aren't really your friend.
Shocking, I know.
Real friends interact outside of the game. Even if it's just email in the case of people who live far away from each other. I'd even go so far as to say if your entire relationship with a person is simply that you play more than one game concurrently together simply because you enjoy each other's company, you are real friends.
Guarantee you that the person described above isn't going to up and move to another server on you.
You see, my friends don't play this game. But if they did, I would play on their server. Why? Because they are my friends and I would want to play with them.
However, if all you do is play XIV with someone and there is no other interaction what so ever. News flash: You're probably not friends and there is a good chance that they would up and disappear on you if it benefited them to do so.
This is why some people are up in arms right now. Because it threatens the foundation of their entire social cosmos.
Cute dig about the friends. The fact is, it is because I have real friends that this idea that someone I've played with on the internet for a year or more might not really be my friend and dissappear tomorrow doesn't rock my reality right down to its core.
And if you really want to talk about thinking about others. This entire situation boils down to a handful of people who want to force others to play with them against their will. That's not thinking of others. That's exploiting others.
If that's the "community" you refer to, I want no part of it.
Quite frankly, it's disturbing.