Originally Posted by
Dyne
I love ffxi. The fact that it was so hard that it really forced you to socialize and make friends. I remember a lot of epic battles that we had, and even some epic leveling. Try same party for 18 hours straight leveling. All those missions or NMs that you couldn't do without the help of good friends. A lot of relationships have formed, even marriages with ffxi. I still keep in contact with some people I meet thru ffxi and sometimes we reminisce about old times like old people remembering WWII. When someone wanted to quit, I really felt like crying many times. Those are the types of bonds that was developed in ffxi, something that is missing in other MMORPGs.
A lot of people didn't like how hard ffxi was, that's because you sat in town and seek for a party for hours on end. You never took that first foot forward and maybe made your own party. You tried to make a party a few times but stopped after getting rejected a few times. You are like that guy who stays a virgin, alone, and living on their parent's basement because they wouldn't take the risk of getting rejected, and tries to rationalize it by saying the world is elitist. Over time, you became hard headed, didn't listen to nobody, and thought you can do everything by yourself and compared yourself mostly to yourself and thought you were better than everybody. So here you are alone, hating this game that you've been playing for at least 6 years, but can't seem to put it down if you hated it so much. Did you really hate it or is the problem you?