Sorry about the heat, I was not intending to be rude.
Indeed the pet active hotbar is a problem since I also have my buff hotbar and my summon/items hotbar and I tried the macros:
Buff set #3 (Icon number 3 for macro)
/chotbar change 3 (Any buffs so my main set consists of attack/defense skills only)
Summon/Item set #4
/chotbar change 4 (All summons and a variety of consumables)
But none worked while I had the Pet Hotbar option ON.
