Thank you for bringing this post up!! I play a gender nonconforming character and it saddens me that we're still getting emote differences :(
Part of me wonders if they can alter the visage emote to work same way as Ballroom Etiquette - Decadent Decoration. It gives access to /paintblack, /paintred, /paintblue, and /paintyellow all in one little emote book, and it would be nice if we could have Pose A and pose B bundled like OP suggested!
