This basically.
90% of forum dwellers have not even completed the normal raid tier, let alone an extreme or savage fight in their lifetime, but will still give you advice as if they had.
The Balance will be your best bet for information on specific jobs, openers and general rotations. They have dedicated sections for each job, where you can chat with other high end players and have any questions answered by people who are qualified to answer it.
Raiding is good fun, but just don't expect it to last much longer than 8-12 weeks before it becomes the regular chore.
