Don't know why people would hate on you, your like the community mentor. However i can see how some people would dislike certain things like giving equipment to players and gearing them up. I run by the mentality of you want it your gonna earn it.
The biggest problem really lies with end game mentality. If your not geared the geared won't help you, unless you female and popular. Its just how all mmo's roll and it reflects on society as whole more so than people realize.