Originally Posted by
Lium
I don't want to de-rail this thread, but I find it odd you're getting that kind of verbal abuse in this game. Yes, it happens, but I can honestly say that in the five years I've been playing FFXIV as my main game, I can count on one hand the number of times I've seen blame hurled at a tank or healer. And it's usually the tank or healer casting the blame on each other. I should also mention I play a healer at max level. Two of them, in fact. And I greatly enjoy healing in this game.
The added stress and responsibility is something I can totally identify with, as that's the primary reason I don't play a tank in groups. I leveled DRK through mostly squadrons and trusts. But that isn't because of group toxicity. It's because I just don't want the responsibility.
FFXIV is quite strict about verbal abuse. If this were some other MMO I could see where you are coming from, but I just haven't seen that here. Not to a high degree, anyway.