Originally Posted by
Vidu
For the record: I dont think its easy to find a static or a good FC - but I do think that a lot of people expect this to be far easier than seems realistic and I dont understand why.
Just to elaborate a bit what I mean: I view both a static and an FC as more than just 7 other people to clear raids with - to me they're friends, more or less good ones, some you're closer with, some you know less about, but they're all friends and its more a community than just the people that you kill Ramuh-savage with.
Joining as static is only the first step in becoming part of such a community - you need to understand that you're joining a bunch of people who know each other for a while already and who will be more familiar with each other at first than they are with you. Joining an FC doesnt mean you get straight into the inner circle or become part of the FCs static. It also doesnt mean that the FC is outright excluding people if they dont kick half the current static to make room for new memembers!
A community, an FC, a static is something everyone builds together - including (a general) you. Its something one needs to invest in - time, effort, kindness... on both sides.
I'm sorry if I'm missunderstanding things here, but often posts complaining about bad FCs read a lot like people were expecting to have 30 friends who are willing to do any content at any time with them - and thats just not realistic.
It takes a while to find a good fit - and it takes an even longer while to foster relationships within the static.
But suggestions like OPs wont help with that - forcing people to play together just because they're in an FC will more likely lead to FC you cant even get a foot in the door. It will lead to more gated communities, not better ones.