I'm really sorry this happened to you and I hope you can go back to enjoy playing a Lalafell.
I used to be one as well, and aside from some silly jokes from my partner everything went well.
People will always take games too seriously and criticize your character if they're différent from their idea of "normal" (I'm getting stupid comments IRL being female and playing a male Miqo'te).
Don't pay attention to them, you don't owe them anything.
oh and also... LALAFELL MASTER RACE §!!!§§§!!!!
