I don't think anybody can talk about que dodging in a bad light when absolutely everyone does it. Good dps try to avoid healers they don't like and vice versa in solo que.
What's to blame in this case is that party que is dead and the only way to get ques is to set them up. You invite people in the skype group, they set it up through the linkshell. As far as I can see there isn't any intentional throwing, and whether or not they feel like queing against anyone is up to them. And to me personally, party que having rewards when it is so dead is kind of a joke regardless. It is like getting into the top 10 but only 10 people showing up. At that point it isn't a real competition. And at the end of the day you have to admit that even within the skype group that on a good day you might get 2 or maybe 3 teams including yourselves to que. At that point it's obvious that even in our skype group battles that one team is going to probably have an advantage and have a nice farm session whether or not the games are close.
Like I said, the situation on Primal is that even Koltik's team has had to set up games to even think about getting a number of ques through the Primal Skype Group. Everyone on Primal in the top 30 has benefited from games setup before hand. Party que, at least on Primal, is that dead. And it is for that reason I can't see the distinction between the two. It is basically what you have to do in order to get a que on Primal Light Party Feast.
And the part about rewards, like ya, I wouldn't be surprised if top 30 had some bronze players get it on Primal. At this point playing light party on Primal is basically a participation award.
