Marriage and Fantasia

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Originally Posted by Tyla_Esmeraude

If you don't love that person enough that you are not willing to sacrifice your character's gender, then... why are you getting married in the first place?

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lolwat... If someone wanna keep their gender in a video game it means they don't love their couple enough? XD

Also pretty sure that SE going to allow fantasia "glitching" SSM, because that'd bring them more $$$$. Just like they're not in a hurry with name changes cause they rather people transfer x2 to change their names XP

Good thing for SE this community is ready to pay extra for anything with "Square Enix" stamp on it lol

What is amazing to me is EVERYONE is perfectly OK with virtual transsexualism... but virtual same-sex marriage? No, that somehow crosses the line.

/smh

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Originally Posted by Souljacker

EVERYONE is perfectly OK with virtual transsexualism...

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Where is this remotely implied?

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Originally Posted by BloodPact

Where is this remotely implied?

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In every single post where someone supplies the answer "Fantasia potion" to the question "What if I'm a guy playing a girl character and I want to marry my girl character RL wife". It's in this very thread. Perhaps you might want to read the posts.

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Originally Posted by Souljacker

In every single post where someone supplies the answer "Fantasia potion" to the question "What if I'm a guy playing a girl character and I want to marry my girl character RL wife". It's in this very thread. Perhaps you might want to read the posts.

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I read them. However I wouldn't consider those people being OK with "virtual transexualism". There've been threads about why guys play female chars and most answers are things like "I don't want to stare at a guys back all day" and the sort. Nothing remotely close to what you claim. My main character in Street Fighter is Rose, in Mortal Kombat is Kitana. Does it also say I'm OK with that? To be honest, I didn't quite understand your last post (#24). I don't know if this answers it correctly.

I really hate the 'if I cant have it nobody can' attitude a lot of people have. I don't like pvp but its a feature in the game and I don't think it should not exist. I dont have the chance to do coil turn 2 because I dont know any groups that match my appropriate time that can do it, but I dont think it should not exist just because I can't take part.

I'm pretty sure SE will just quietly add a workaround for people to have ssm just like in XI, that way people get what they want, and it wont cause a big drama among the people that dont like it (despite what some people on these forums claim, yes it exists). Its a fake wedding and all you get out of it is a ring and an outfit. Go ahead and make your own wedding if you want and just play pretend with a little more creativity. Thats what my husband and I did in XI when we both played female characters.

I shudder mainly at the potential for what happened in ffxi; players who would fulltime their wedding rings in group content.

I said in another thread, and I'll put it here, imo the best "implementation" of a wedding anything I think, would be to just make the dress/tux/rings a 3-star crafting rec for vanity purposes, and everyone just role-play the "wedding" with their friends in attendance. This way, everyone is included, everyone is happy, no one can feel left out or not validated, and we get some pretty glamour gears!

Ive personally wondered about this myself.

I'd like to be able to do this with my friend for the hell of it, but we're both playing male miqos at the moment. And knowing him- seeing as I'm the one who's a girl in RL- would most likely be the one who'd have to change gender (ugh) for this to work.

If a Mod or GM could respond on this matter and atleast hint that the rings wont be gender locked (like the lightning hairstyle), so I can stock up on phantasias.

Because I have no intentions of permanently staying a fem in this game (seeing as all the fems here as horribly FUGLY, with lalas just barely looking cute), but I dont want the effort of doing a wedding/union/We only to find that it will defunk out and the items and all perks with it is useless...

If someone could confirm this, this could easier put the same sex marrige issue to rest.