You kind of deserve to be flamed, looking at your profile I'd say you couldn't have been 50 for more than 2 weeks. After you get through HM titan a few times you'll realize it's not that bad.
I will concede the point that it's frustrating as a tank, but that's really because you literally do nothing the entire fight. It's one of the fights where most of the pressure is on the dps.
Keep working on your gear, finish leveling your conjurer for Stoneskin, get the first few levels at least in Maurader for Foresight, and try and network with some folks you know are competent. You'll get it down eventually, and honestly if you can't get through Titan HM you're not going to succeed in any of the content that comes after it.
