Originally Posted by
Gothicshark
You bring up a good lesson that people need to learn. Making a Joke, idiom, or metaphor through the use of bigotry is wrong, and when someone calls you out on it, you shouldn't try and defend your use of bigotry. You should apologize, and try to avoid bigotry, now in some cases you might not feel the term or expression is offensive, but it really doesn't matter, you don't get to choose whither or not others are offended, If you offend, you are at fault. It's that simple. Stop trying to justify your offense, and start doing the right thing and do better, and reframe from using bigotry accidental or not.